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With 6 weeks to go we have already received pledges of over 8,000kms. Last year our participants and groups from nearly 50 countries across the globe cycled over 357,000kms.
Join us in Cycling Around the Globe to raise awareness of the risks of suicide and to fund suicide prevention activities. We know that a person dies every 40 seconds by suicide and up to 25 times as many again make a suicide attempt. There are also many more people who have been bereaved by suicide or have been close to someone who has made an attempt. This World Suicide Prevention Day event is about our global community: to encourage us to engage with each other and to join together to spread awareness of suicide prevention.
Register now and join the global movement.
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We look forward to sharing 2018 World Suicide Prevention Day with you.
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"Problems cannot be solved with the same mindset that created them." - Albert Einstein
Light a Candle near a Window at 8 PM to show your support for suicide prevention, to remember a lost loved one, and for the survivors of suicide.
We have e-cards or postcards currently available in 53 languages so supports can send these reminders to friends, colleagues and loved ones.
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8pm, September 10, 2018
World Suicide Prevention Day
Working Together to Prevent Suicide
We look forward to sharing 2018 World Suicide Prevention Day with you.
As part of the PreEvent Programming for #10thSeptWorldSuicidePreventionDay #Aasra partners with KDProductions to present this life-affirming play about the no 1 problem plaguing the youth of Today- A Lack of resilience and propensity towards suicide.
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Announcing the Finalists of CII Foundation’s Woman Exemplar Program, 2018
Nancy has tackled severe backlash and threats for challenging caste and gender-based discrimination and organized 11,980 ultra-poor Dalit women and children into SHGs, domestic workers unions, and children’s collectives.
Living with poverty, dealing with chronic mental illness and being lesbian led Srija to build a movement of barefoot community women mental health counselors in partnership with the government, directly impacting 4,000 persons with psychosocial disabilities and reaching 300,000 individuals through dialogues to break the stigma around mental illness.
Forced into marriage at the age of 12, Munni is transforming the lives of 5,770 illiterate rural women through literacy and livelihood programs in Eastern Uttar Pradesh.
Nancy, Srija and Munni are among the 15 unstoppable women change agents who were announced as Finalists of CII Foundation’s Woman Exemplar Program, 2018 in the three categories of Education, Health and Micro Enterprise.
ABOUT CII FOUNDATION’S WOMAN EXEMPLAR PROGRAM
The CII Foundation’s Woman Exemplar Program recognizes exemplary women who are transforming grassroots India. Since its inception in 2005, the program has discovered, recognized and supported women from excluded communities who have, against all odds, excelled and contributed to the development process in India. The women who are selected to this initiative are called EXEMPLAR because they demonstrate vision, resilience and role model leadership.
Winners of the CII Woman Exemplar Program, 2017 with dignitaries
ABOUT THE 2018 WOMAN EXEMPLAR PROGRAM
This year, the Woman Exemplar Program, 2018, received 227 nominations from across 23 states – the highest ever. After a rigorous five-step selection process, 15 Finalists were shortlisted, each of whom have emerged ground-up, from the most marginalized communities of India. They have overcome deep social and economic exclusion to transform their own lives and their communities.
Working across nine states with different communities and sectors, these Finalists share a common vision of an inclusive India, where full citizenship is secured for all. In every way, these grassroots women change makers are ‘nation builders’, driving progress and change in the fields of education, health and micro enterprise.
Three winners (one each from the categories of Education, Health and Micro Enterprise) will be selected by an illustrious jury and felicitated by business, government and civil society leaders at a CII exclusive session in April 2018. The winners will receive a cash award of INR 3 lakh and a trophy. All winners and Finalists will also be part of a year-long leadership training and mentoring program.
Moni Kannaujia in her classroom of change
MEET THE FINALISTS
CATEGORY: EDUCATION
A child wage laborer, Munni was forced into marriage at the age of 12. She withstood intense domestic violence and schooled herself, sometimes writing with coal on waste paper discarded by her neighbors. She is today a leading advocate for women’s literacy and education. This ‘Malala of Eastern UP’ has transformed the lives of 5,770 illiterate rural women through literacy and livelihood programs. She has also organized them into collectives to access government schemes and entitlements.
Thrust into poverty after her father’s death, Nita found purpose in building a grassroots volunteer movement in the forested tribal belts of North Bengal. She has launched 4,500 youth and women change agents who have set up 61 self-sustaining volunteer groups in villages around remote and impoverished tea plantations. The change agents facilitate projects to address access to education, health, sanitation, trafficking, rights abuse and environmental resilience. These projects have impacted more than 8,500 individuals.
A survivor of domestic violence and financial crisis, Arshi has launched a movement against early marriage and trafficking in deep, interior pockets of Eastern Uttar Pradesh. Through life skills and vocational training, she is encouraging 5,000 vulnerable girls to stay in school, delay their marriage, and prepare for viable livelihoods. Arshi has also mobilized 13,000 SHG members as education advocates and trained 250 women to take up girls’ education leadership roles in the government.
Daughter of a Dhobi, Moni funded her education by working as a domestic help. Channeling her passion for the camera, she now leads a unique technology-and-media education initiative, Digital Study Hall. Moni and her team have produced more than 2,000 videos of classroom sessions conducted by model teachers on joyful learning and gender empowerment. Uploaded on YouTube and distributed offline, these films have impacted 100,000 teachers and girls in government schools across Uttar Pradesh and Rajasthan.
Daughter of a sugarcane vendor, Nasreen has ignited a movement for education and empowerment among girls of the poorest Muslim, Dalit, Devdasi, and Maadiga communities of North Karnataka. She has organized 854 children and young women in civic action and advocacy groups, where they experience self-transformation and access scholarships, tuition, and counselling supports to pursue higher education. These groups now play a key advocacy role against Triple Talaq and other discriminatory religious practices.
CATEGORY: HEALTH
Living with poverty, dealing with chronic mental illness and being lesbian led Srija to find her life’s mission. She has shaped Janamanas, a community mental health program in deprived municipal wards and panchayats in West Bengal. Srija is building a movement of barefoot community women mental health counselors in partnership with the government. The counselors have directly impacted 4,000 persons with psychosocial disabilities and reached 300,000 individuals through dialogues on breaking the stigma around mental illness.
Gowramma’s world crashed with the news that her husband was HIV positive. But she pivoted quickly to convert this adversity into an opportunity for entrepreneurship. Unable to afford the nutritional supplements that her husband required, Gowramma developed and produced an affordable alternative-Samruddhi, a FSSAI certified supplement. Distributed through NGOs, hospitals and clinics, Samruddhi has revived 5,500 individuals back to health. Gowramma has received investments from social enterprise funds and is poised for growth.
Married at the age of 9, a daily wage laborer at the age of 11, and widowed by AIDS at the age of 15, Asha founded Saksham, the Ajmer chapter of the Positive Women’s Network. Working in Nasirabad, Rajasthan’s most high-prevalence HIV belt, Saksham has offered de-stigmatized counseling, free treatment, nutritional supplements and access to government health services for 6,011 women, children and men living with HIV. She has also trained and connected 50 women survivors of HIV to livelihood opportunities in difficult rural belts of Ajmer.
Born into a family of iron smiths, Deepa won over poverty, abuse, early marriage, domestic violence and work place discrimination to emerge as a change agent. Her organization is launching transformative Dalit, Adivasi and Muslim youth leaders. They are mentored to mobilize local governments and communities on sexual health, gender rights, mental health, and wellness. Deepa’s work has directly impacted 15,800 youth leaders and their communities. More than four groups have evolved into formal organizations, in turn impacting 15,000 individuals.
Growing up with abuse, violence and poverty, Hajera is working to end domestic violence and child sex abuse in the poorest pockets of Hyderabad, dominated by religious conservatism. Hajera and her team of ‘peacemakers’ are opening up safe spaces in bastis for women and children to access psychological and legal relief. Awareness sessions, counseling and legal redressal have given courage to 1,382 women and 4,593 children to break their silence around abuse and take urgent action.
CATEGORY: MICRO ENTERPRISE
Financial independence from a micro enterprise enabled Eliza to overcome domestic violence. With this conviction, she grew from being a SHG member to pioneering the SHG movement in Assam. Under her leadership, MASK has impacted 2,550 women and their families through SHGs, micro entrepreneurship, animal husbandry and other allied activities, ending indebtedness and stemming forced migration. By engaging women from all ethnic and linguistic groups in livelihood generation, MASK has strengthened unity between once-conflicted tribes.
Vechulou grew up in an isolated village on the Indo-Burmese border, managing farm work and domestic chores. Her capacity for back-breaking work enabled Vechulou to transform her community by introducing modern agriculture and animal husbandry to 10,586 women, farmers and youth, seeding thousands of small entrepreneurs in the deep rural interior pockets of Nagaland. The only woman to be invited to traditional Naga tribal council meetings, Vechulou represents the voice of Naga women in the state.
Daughter of a Dalit school headmaster, Nancy has tackled severe backlash and threats for challenging caste and gender-based discrimination. Vizhuthukal Trust (VT) has organized 11,980 ultra-poor Dalit women and children into SHGs, domestic workers unions and children’s collectives. It has incubated more than 450 Dalit women entrepreneurs, providing credit linkages of up to 3 crores. VT has also provided supports to elderly Dalit domestic helps who are abandoned and too emaciated to fend for themselves.
At 15, Sumitra was abandoned and left penniless by her husband. Today she is a master at seeding and strengthening grassroots business ventures.Working in the drought-affected areas of Osmanabad, Sumitra has organized 3,000 women into SHGs with an asset pool of Rs. 5.3 crores. Owner of two businesses and a producer company, she has also mentored 2,000 women entrepreneurs, of which 700 are running successful businesses with annual income increases of more than 40 percent.
Sangita fought against the stigma of Leukoderma by establishing a livelihoods ecosystem for Persons with Disabilities (PwDs). Working in 132 villages, she organized 954 PwDs in Peer Support Groups and SHGs and encouraged savings, access to social security and small business ownership among them. Through entrepreneurship trainings and market linkages, 50 PwDs have launched ventures. They bring home annual incomes of Rs. 60,000, disrupting the conventional understanding of ‘ability’ in this backward region.
ABOUT THE SPONSORS
Health Category Sponsor: J K Tyres
Micro Enterprise Category Sponsor: JCB
NOTE TO THE EDITORS
The CII Foundation was set up by CII to provide a meaningful bridge between marginalized communities and donors, especially corporates, and to develop and manage high-impact programs through strategic guidance on CSR. Over the last few years, CII Foundation has undertaken various projects with corporate sector support in the areas of skill development, child development and maternal health, water conservation, disaster relief and rehabilitation etc.
Start Up! – an incubator, impact accelerator and leadership springboard to social entrepreneurs- manages the due diligence, leadership trainings and mentoring for the Woman Exemplar Program, on behalf of the CII Foundation.
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What explains the spike in the number of top-level corporate honchos taking their lives
In May this year, the chief operating officer of Encyclopaedia Britannica took his life by plunging down the ventilation shaft of his residential building.
In April, after his text and messaging app failed to take off, 33-year-old Lucky Gupta Agarwal, founder and CEO of KQingdom Ites, killed himself by inhaling nitrogen.
In 2012, Lalit Sheth, owner of Raj Travels, drowned himself in the Arabian Sea when failures overshadowed the stupendous successes he had seen as a tourism tycoon.
All these people lived in metros, had access to the best medical facilities and yet did not seek help before taking the extreme step. While the factors behind any suicide are complex, often a mix of both personal and professional issues, mental health experts point to the rising tide among C-suite executives in an era where both success and failure are given undue importance. “People at the top find it more difficult to admit they have a problem ...to relate to someone not as intelligent as them,” says Anjali Chhabria, psychiatrist and founder of Mindtemple, a mental wellness clinic in Mumbai.
A 2015 study by Assocham found depression or general anxiety disorder prevalent among nearly 42.5 per cent of employees in the private sector, with demanding schedules, high stress levels and performance-linked perquisites cited as the main causes.
Medics warn that untreated depression can lead to suicide. “Just as the risk of heart disease is death, the risk of untreated depression is also death,” says Dr Chhabria.
According to the World Health Organisation, each year about eight lakh people commit suicide worldwide. Nearly 1.35 lakh, or 17 per cent, of them are Indians. Between 1987 and 2007, the suicide rate in the country increased from 7.9 to 10.3 per lakh. Government figures indicate that four-fifths of the suicide victims were literate.
Alpha and insecure
Johnson Thomas, director at Mumbai-based mental health NGO Aasra, says his suicide helpline receives nearly 100 to 150 calls every day, including many from businessmen, professionals and CXOs. “Today’s generation is ambitious and wants everything fast, but is not able to take rejection. If there is any loss of pay or position or some negative commentary on their professionalism, they tend to take it much harder compared to the previous generation,” he says.
Compared to a generation ago, many of today’s CXOs are much younger.
According to a 2014 global study by advisory firm Zinnov, the average age of CEOs who founded companies after 2000 is 36, compared with 39 for the founders who came before. The study, across the global 500 R&D spenders, also found that the average age of CEO appointments has fallen by four years after 2000.
Rajiv Vij, Singapore-based life and executive coach, says that while younger people are competent for bigger corporate roles for the most part, they are sometimes emotionally unprepared for the significant ups and downs of a corporate leadership role. “Additionally, owing to business pressures, seniors may not have sufficient time to groom the new leaders,” he says.
A telling point for today’s generation is that resilience levels are very low, adds Thomas.
There are several reasons why many at the top find it difficult to share or discuss workplace troubles with friends and family.
The CXO-level executives are largely characterised by alpha personalities and high achievers, but they also need someone to confide in and are usually unable to find anybody, says Thomas. “If they confide in a junior, they may be looked down upon. A colleague at the same level may be a threat to their position and confiding in a senior could mean their job is at risk.”
Making friends with failure
Culturally, too, Indians are largely wary of sharing their personal challenges with others. “For many, there’s a stigma attached to reaching out to a psychotherapist or even a coach,” says Vij, who used to be a managing director for Franklin Templeton Investments until he quit in 2006 to embark on a journey of personal growth and helping others in theirs. Even parents today are focused only on education, says Thomas. They don’t tell their children that life has ups and downs, leaving them incapable of handling setbacks with fortitude.
In November last year, Angad Paul, son of India-born Britain-based businessman Swraj Paul, plunged to death from his penthouse in central London. The CEO of Caparo Industries took the step after the company went into administration and many jobs were lost.
In Switzerland, Zurich Insurance CFO Pierre Wauthier took his life in 2013, while the company’s former chief executive Martin Senn killed himself in May this year. The high-pressure world of Wall Street investment bankers is notorious for suicides.
Trouble brewing online
The Internet comes in for flak, too, for overemphasising failures and successes with every click. “The Internet has also made people insecure. People who don’t have the right values are actually using it for dishonouring others,” says motivational speaker Shiv Khera.
The constant updates on social media piles on unnecessary pressure, says Chhabria. “You may get a lot of likes, or you may feel sorry for yourself when you don’t,” she says.
But in the world of business, it is not only corporate honchos who are ill-prepared for life’s vicissitudes — online or offline.
Small and medium business owners, stockbrokers as well as real estate executives are also high on the ‘suicidal’ list.
Following the stock market crash in 2008, there was a spate of suicides by stockbrokers in India.
A broker who had lost all his wealth reached out to the Aasra helpline. He explained that he was unable to even call his family as that would put the loan sharks on his trail. “We talked him out of suicide and helped him tide over the crisis,” Thomas recounts.
Family in the loop
Chhabria stresses the importance of a robust family support system in the battle against depression and suicide.
Khera points out that, all too often, successful CXOs have little trouble facing the external world but struggle to deal with the internal world of family relationships. “When people have poor relationships in the family, they become internally weak. The probability of committing suicide then becomes high.”
Mohamed El-Erian, chief executive officer of trillion-dollar investment fund PIMCO, decided to invest more in his family by quitting his job in January 2014 after his 10-year-old daughter listed 22 milestones he had missed in her life.
While this may appear extreme, most CXOs would be better off targeting work-home balance. “We tend to identify ourselves too much with our professional work,” says Vij, advising a healthy and balanced perspective instead.
Moreover, being open to sharing problems with others or seeking professional support is helpful too, he adds.
“India is in a transitional phase and, unlike before, there is no support from a joint family. Being bonded with the immediate family is essential,” Thomas says. Keeping family in tow while climbing the corporate ladder may slow down the journey, but it will perhaps be more sure-footed.